In some societies, religions, or simply personal preference, people may choose to abstain from sexual intercourse with their significant other until marriage. If you want to stay sex-free with your boyfriend, take this tutorial.
- Have a discussion about your reasons for abstinence. Engage your partner in a good give-and-take talk about your ideas concerning the timing for sexual intercourse. Seek their input, but explain where you stand, so there will be no misunderstandings later.
- Be active together. In your free time: hike, bike, swim, walk, exercise, play sports, and so on. Get up and out, working your muscles, to relieve pent-up tensions.
- Spend time together in public places away from home. Do not study together at home, for instance, but go to the library where you cannot do things in private.
- Do nonsexual activities. Do things together that are not necessarily sexual, such as giving each other: massages, shampoos, pedicures, and manicures.
- Be loving. You are in a relationship. Even without sexual intercourse, you can show your love for your partner by kissing, holding hands, hugging, sitting close, snuggling, and so on.
- Meet with other people. Have group meetings with like-minded people to reinforce your ideas concerning sexual intercourse, giving each other feedback and a chance to describe strategies.
- Give your partner positive feedback. Compliment him on his looks, mental prowess, and skills with hobbies or sports, for example. Do no take him for granted. Tell him how much you appreciate him being on the same page as you are as far as sexual intercourse goes.
- Remind your partner that abstinence is not forever, and there will come a time when you will have sexual intercourse. Talk with him about making plans for that time.
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