How To Go Down On Her, And Different Styles Of Going Down

As a guy, what you need to remember is that part of having oral sex is making sure you can deliver the goods.
While almost every woman will appreciate the classic cunnilingus positions, like riding your face and the muff dive, you can bring her to the point of ecstasy by doing things no other man has done, or took the time to do.

Think of it this way: The average cunnilingus positions are just that, average. Do you want to be remembered as the average guy in bed? I didn't think so. Read on for some great ideas on unique ways to go down on her.

1- Legs up

This is just a slight variation of the basic "between her legs muff dive" that we all know and love. Have her start by lying on her back and putting her legs up over your shoulders. She may have to arch her back slightly to do this. You should be able to reach back and grab her ankles with your hands.

What you need to do:

You want to position yourself between her legs. If you can easily reach back and grab her ankles with your hands, you're in the right position. If arching her back is the least bit uncomfortable for her, you should offer to get her a couple of pillows. Check her comfort level frequently during the appropriate times.

In this position, you have a full range of motion from the top of her vagina to the bottom. Try pulling her lips apart with your fingers very gently and licking the inside of her wall. Her clitoris is there for you to gently kiss.

2- The dirty doggy

Here's one of those great unique ways to go down on her: the dirty doggy. She should be on all fours with her butt up, facing away from you -- exactly as she would if she were going to have sex with you in the doggy style position.

What you need to do:

Position yourself at a lower angle than her body, making sure your neck is comfortable. For example, put her on the bed with only her ass hanging over and you kneeling on the floor. This angle puts you in a great spot to rub your hands all over her backside. Encourage her to use whatever hand she is not bracing herself with to masturbate. And, gentlemen, don't be afraid to smack that bootie.

 3- 68

This is built more for the girl who likes anal stimulation with tongue, but you can also reach the lower part of her vagina. It's important to note that unless you have a tongue that could put Gene Simmons to shame, she will not get any sort of clitoral stimulation from this angle. You can, however, reach around with your hands and stimulate the clitoris and any part of the upper vagina with your hands.

What you need to do:

Lie flat on your back on something comfortable. She will lie on top of you facing away (hence the term "68"). Take a deep breath and brace yourself for her weight. Make sure she has plenty of room for her legs and arms.

4- Reverse legs overhead

Have her begin by laying flat on her back with her legs straight out. Next, help her swing her legs up and over her head so that they are facing the opposite direction. She will basically be in the same position she would use if she were stretching out her back in yoga class.

What you need to do:

Position yourself near her head and shoulder area while kneeling down with one leg. At this spot you can easily slide your middle fingers inside of her and hit her G-spot. With her ass that high in the air you can also gently stimulate the anus at the same time.

 

5- The 180 ride

The 180 ride is another one those unique ways to go down on her. She'll begin by riding your face for a brief amount of time, and will follow by gently rotating her hips/pelvis around your face until she is in the opposite direction that she started in (making a whole 90-degree turn). After a brief amount of time with you down on her in this position, she will gently rotate her hips/pelvis again until she is facing the direction she started in (completing a 180-degree turn).

This position will give her more control, making her responsible for the speed, pressure and position your tongue is going.

What you need to do:

Find a comfortable spot where you can lay flat on your back. Be sure to have your head facing something she can grab onto (like a headboard), which will make the turns much easier for her. Be sure to protect your face when she is turning or the sudden shift in weight could seriously damage your nose.

In the beginning of this position, your hands will be free to manually get yourself off. She'll take the fact that going down on her can get you off as a huge compliment. However, be sure to focus more attention on her than on your own personal hand job, otherwise she may feel you are more into your needs than hers.

On the flip side, when she completes the first 90-degree turn, her hands are free to complete what you started.

Get your head in the game

It's easier for you to stimulate her clitoris through oral sex. As a result, many women will prefer cunnilingus to intercourse because it's easier for them to achieve orgasm. A girl you just helped achieved orgasm is a happy girl, and a happy girl is going to make sure you're a happy guy.

Never forget: Oral sex is a two-way street. The more time you spend going down on her, the more time she'll probably be spending on her knees. But you've gotta be creative and figure out some more unique ways of going down on her.

When it comes to performing oral sex, try your best because she's going to talk to her friends about it. And you know what they say in the business world -- the best advertising comes from "word of mouth."