3 Ways To Show Affection In Public Without Being Offensive

I think we can all agree there's a difference between cute companionship and full-on Public Displays of Affection.
So where's the line? Here are 3 tips on being affectionate in public:

1. Hold hands, not bodies
While putting his arm around your shoulder is totally fine, grabbing butt-cheeks and any other private parts is a no-go. In fact, less is always more in these situations. Public groping is just plain disgusting.

2. Kiss gently, not aggressively
Cute little pecks here and there never hurt. Even locking lips a tiny bit longer is totally OK, but anything that involves tongue or saliva should be saved for home. Think about it: would you want to witness two people swapping spit in public? Yuck!

3. Remember, eye contact is hot!
Nothing says "I want you" more than those steamy, longing gazes at one another! It's the exact reason we all love to swoon over our favorite will-they-won't-they TV couples. The sexual tension builds to the point of explosion. Why not try that with your beau? You'll be dying to rip each other's clothes off at home in the bedroom!

5 Ways To Stop Fighting Before It Gets Ugly

Fighting is a part of every partnership (or at least it should be), and learning how to fight or disagree constructively is a big part of maintaining a healthy relationship.

Sure, slamming the door and not coming out for hours sounds super fun, and yeah, sleeping at your sister's for a week will drive home some sort of point, but those two options aren't nearly as beneficial as having an effective conversation with your partner, even if you're seething.

Here are 5 ways to stop the fighting, and start the talking, before things get ugly.

1. Speak using "I" statements. It's classic advice, but it works. Saying "I" statements helps you avoid saying anything you'll regret, like, "You're so lazy and all you do is watch TV!" and turns it into "I feel neglected when you don't help around the house." Feel the difference?

2. Avoid sarcasm. A lot us try and use humor to diffuse a situation, which is great, just ... don't be sarcastic. Tensions are running high, so what you think is a sarcastic joke about divorce can be misinterpreted in the worst way possible.

3. No response is sometimes the best response. When we're pissed off, confused, hurt, or even tired, we can be quick to lash out. When you're having a disagreement with your partner and you feel like going for the jugular, remember that sometimes it's just best not to say anything. There's always tomorrow to say how you really feel in a constructive, thoughtful way. Which brings me to ...

4. There's always tomorrow. Sometimes when we're fighting, we think we have to say everything that's wrong, or unleash every frustration we've ever had in the history of the relationship because we think this fight is the only chance we'll get. Not true. I know we've been trained to seize the day, but in some cases, you need to seize the tomorrow. Or the next week. Or the month. Take time to think about what you want to say and what's really bothering you, then bring it up (yes, you can do that!) when you've both had time to step away from the trees and take a look at the forest.

5. Breathe. Age old tip, but counting to 10 and taking deep breaths really, truly helps.

Women Decoded: 7 Words And Phrases All Men Need To Know

Because men and women mostly don't understand each other, I've come up with the 7 most popular words and phrases women use when dealing with men.

So. If you're a man I suggest you read this, memorize it, and live it. If for no other reason than your safety and quality of life.

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut the heck up. Immediately.

(2) Five Minutes: If the woman is getting dressed, this means half an hour.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with "nothing" usually end in "fine."

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't do it!

(5) Loud Sigh: This isn't actually a word, but a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of "nothing.")

(6) That's OK: This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. "That's OK" means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you -- do not question it. Just say: "You're welcome."

7 Sexy Things About Women That Men Notice

Women go through a lot for guys. I'm talking about just the daily primping. The makeup, the lipstick, the hair...etc.

Now I know guys are an incredibly visual species. There are plenty attractive attributes women have going for them.

With that in mind, here are 7 truly sexy things about women you might be surprised that we notice.

1. Eyes - Forget the mascara, the heavy eye makeup, the longer lashes, or the eyebrow plucking. I'm talking purely about eyes in all their natural beauty here. One powerful and confident look from a woman can make any guy weak in the knees.

2. Bare shoulders - Even back in high school, we guys would go nuts if we caught just a glimpse of a girl's shoulder. Some things never change. There's just something super sexy about that part of a woman.

3. Confidence - This one's a biggie. The more confident a woman is in herself and her body, the more of a turn-on it is for guys. So stop being so self-conscious about how you look and just be comfortable being you.

4. Lips - Lips can definitely be sexy. They have to be... they're the tools used for kissing after all!

5. Sense of humor - Women? Funny? Yes, yes they are. Women already like a guy who can make them laugh, so why shouldn't the same thing be true for us?

6. Curves - Call me crazy, but curves on a women are definitely hot. What's the point of hips if you're so skinny you don't even have any?

7. Smile - Lips can certainly be a turn-on, but so can a smile. From a tiny corner-of-the-lip curl to a full-on, display of teeth, a smile can be much more powerful than most women realize.

What does your man find sexiest about you?

What Makes A Woman Approachable?

There are a lot of things that are fairly universal in this area: smiling, laughing, being energetic, talking to other people who are around, making eye contact.

Most dating and courtship studies show that men will typically only approach a woman if there is a moment where the two make lingering eye contact. On the other side of that, when men DO approach a woman when no eye contact has been made, or if the eye contact is fleeting, he will usually be shot down.

If there is a specific guy that you want to approach you, let him catch you looking. When he does catch you looking, don't look away, allow your eyes to lock for a moment. Chances are he'll come over and say hi.

Guys will look for any number of things that all tie back to one central question: "How likely is it that they're going to shoot me down?" It's a big risk that a guy is taking by approaching someone that he doesn't know and so I always tell guys to look for signs that they're into you, or at least open to talking.

If there's one thing for you to take away from this, it's to look like you're having a good time. No guy is ever going to approach somebody who looks like they're having a bad time unless he lost a bet or something. This is as simple as laughing, smiling, and talking to the people you're with, but it makes all of the difference. From there, you just make it known that you want him to approach you.

In the "pickup" industry, they call these Indicators of Interest. They work like a charm. Make eye contact when nobody else in your group is looking his way. Keep the eye contact for a few seconds before looking away, repeat. If you're in a crowded bar, brush lightly against him as you walk past. He'll notice you, and probably think it's a complete coincidence. Just remember that guys are horrible at picking up subtle signals and need a little bit more guidance than you think they ought to. When in doubt just ask yourself what you can do to make it clear that he's not likely to get shut down. With just a little practice, you should be able to have him approaching you in no time.

‘Prostate Cancer Kills 14 Nigerian Men Daily’- Coordinator, National Cancer Prevention Programme

The Coordinator, National Cancer Prevention Programme, Lagos State branch, Dr. Abia Nzelu, has said that prostate cancer kills 14 men everyday in Nigeria.

Nzelu, who said this in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria in Lagos on Tuesday, noted that the figure was based on studies.

She said that a large percentage of Nigerian men report their cancer cases late when the symptoms had already manifested and attributed the situation to ignorance.

According to her, people die unnecessarily, even when they were diagnosed because there are no facilities to treat them.

She said, “Prostate cancer, the second commonest cancer in men, kills 14 men in Nigeria every day. This is not acceptable because it can be prevented.

“India has over 120 comprehensive cancer centres and we don’t have even one centre that has everything to take care of any kind of cancer that can carry out world class research.

“We need something like this in our own country, because apart from the fact that those that have, can afford it and travel, what of those that cannot?

“In Nigeria, cancer is like a death sentence, that is why most deaths here are unnecessary; they are untimely.

“When we had the Dana crash, we are all shouting, but each day people are dying of cancer. Because, they are dying silently, we are not doing anything about it,” she said.

Nzelu said that prevention should be through life style modification, screening and routine checkups, at least once a year for those who are 40 years and above.

She said that regular exercise, losing weight and imbibing the culture of health maintenance could reduce the risk by 50 per cent.

She advocated the establishment of cancer centres in each of the six-geo-political zones, adding that such centres could be built through self-help projects rather than waiting for government.

“The only way to go about it is to get our own comprehensive cancer centres and we cannot wait for government to get them.

“And so the Nigerian Communications Commission has created a platform through which everybody, irrespective of economic status, can contribute, can save own life and save the lives of other people.

“By just contributing N100; by texting ‘Cancer’ to 44777; we will be able to achieve this; we will be able to build these cancer centres in the six geo-political zones.

“We will be able to have it at affordable rate for the poor people. Nigerians should join hands together so that we will achieve this great and noble venture.

“Because together it is possible, that was the theme of this year’s cancer day,” she said.

Photos & Video: Kel Returns With New Video ‘Give It To You’ Feat W4

She’s not been in the scene for a while – after the release of three singles last year, Kelechi ‘Kel‘ Ohia went off the radar.

Well, it seems she’s been working in the background and now ready to make a comeback. Among her new set of recordings is a duet with ‘Kontrol‘ singer W4 titled ‘Give it to me‘. A video for the single was recently shot in South Africa.

Check out the photos below

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